"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone here ever got cosmetic surgery to get laid?

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I was going through some RSD archives earlier and there was a poster on RSD (cowboy) who was kind of incel, he got plastic surgery on his face (nose job, jaw implants, chin work, ears fixed, hair transplant etc) and turned into a slayer over night. Cost him like 45k I think.
Went from opening and getting told ''Sorry, i'm not interested'' or girls not really pulling their weight in conversation, to opening and getting massive IOI's and girls filling in blanks in the convo and trying to bang him

He posted his before and after pics, too

I have a decent lay count and am definitely not 'incel', but I'm struggling with the girls I actually want (the hot young ones who are superficial and don't care about whether you are 'on your purpose' or dominant and wealthy or a 'great man with power' etc) and am contemplating giving it a shot - surely others have done this. I doubt 'cowboy' is the only one!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've gotten a hair transplant to lower my hairline and it was the one of best decisions I've made; it was an investment that paid off dividends in boosting my confidence to get higher-paying jobs and pursuing higher quality women.

I'm also thinking of getting gyno surgery to make my chest more squared looking.
 

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I've gotten a hair transplant to lower my hairline and it was the one of best decisions I've made; it was an investment that paid off dividends in boosting my confidence to get higher-paying jobs and pursuing higher quality women.

I'm also thinking of getting gyno surgery to make my chest more squared looking.
I can't tell if this real or sarcastic. A chest should be V-shaped.
 

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You want those superficial girls? Lol you are in for a rude awakening.
 

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After surgery and get laid to 1000 hb then what?? You will be jaded with them, be the best version of yourself, wether its surgery, lasers, skincare regime, go to gym workout, focus on get a good life, never ever do it for women.. Do it for yourself. Afterward u will attract with what you're projecting from yourself, you'll have higher self worth and thriving in life, you will attract the same exact female that came along worthy for you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Read Psycho-Cybernetics instead.

Written by a plastic surgeon who found zero correlation between looks and confidence.

Building real self confidence is not only free, but as others mentioned, girls will be attracted to the real you and not the surgically augmented, physical appearance you.
 
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