"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone here ever got cosmetic surgery to get laid?

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I was going through some RSD archives earlier and there was a poster on RSD (cowboy) who was kind of incel, he got plastic surgery on his face (nose job, jaw implants, chin work, ears fixed, hair transplant etc) and turned into a slayer over night. Cost him like 45k I think.
Went from opening and getting told ''Sorry, i'm not interested'' or girls not really pulling their weight in conversation, to opening and getting massive IOI's and girls filling in blanks in the convo and trying to bang him

He posted his before and after pics, too

I have a decent lay count and am definitely not 'incel', but I'm struggling with the girls I actually want (the hot young ones who are superficial and don't care about whether you are 'on your purpose' or dominant and wealthy or a 'great man with power' etc) and am contemplating giving it a shot - surely others have done this. I doubt 'cowboy' is the only one!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've gotten a hair transplant to lower my hairline and it was the one of best decisions I've made; it was an investment that paid off dividends in boosting my confidence to get higher-paying jobs and pursuing higher quality women.

I'm also thinking of getting gyno surgery to make my chest more squared looking.
 

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I've gotten a hair transplant to lower my hairline and it was the one of best decisions I've made; it was an investment that paid off dividends in boosting my confidence to get higher-paying jobs and pursuing higher quality women.

I'm also thinking of getting gyno surgery to make my chest more squared looking.
I can't tell if this real or sarcastic. A chest should be V-shaped.
 

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You want those superficial girls? Lol you are in for a rude awakening.
 

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After surgery and get laid to 1000 hb then what?? You will be jaded with them, be the best version of yourself, wether its surgery, lasers, skincare regime, go to gym workout, focus on get a good life, never ever do it for women.. Do it for yourself. Afterward u will attract with what you're projecting from yourself, you'll have higher self worth and thriving in life, you will attract the same exact female that came along worthy for you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Read Psycho-Cybernetics instead.

Written by a plastic surgeon who found zero correlation between looks and confidence.

Building real self confidence is not only free, but as others mentioned, girls will be attracted to the real you and not the surgically augmented, physical appearance you.
 
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