SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hey guys was wondering if I could get some tips for boosted confidence.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Anyone have tips to sky rocket confidence?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Wow I hadn't read Pook's 15 Laws before. Classic. Here is a summary:
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Now I realize what it means to be a don juan, thanx bud!PrettyBoyAJ said:
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Work out. A lot.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Get laid.
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this does not work in asia where the pvssies run extra small tight and wet. I accidentally busted in about 10 seconds after I tried this. Then, I substituted for yohimbine. Much better.real2 said:Stop jerking off.
No really, stop jerking off.
Guaranteed success after 7 days, or your monkey back!
The only real way to self confidence is to be confident in yourself. Thats a hard concept. But love yourself. If there is a part of yourself that you can just NOT love, then work on changing it. Otherwise, accept yourself as an awesomely supreme being, and treat yourself as such.
working out helps.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Not giving a f$&k, in the sense of being outcome dependent or what other people may think of you - trust the gut to see what's right for you ( that's not me syndrome). Get out of the comfort zone, challenge yourself, let go off the ego.Many people thought I was nuts to try certain things or go a certain path- too bad they were the best decisions I ve ever made. Knowlege and experience. Working out is a given, because confidence is physical just as much- probably the quickest way way to get it. Self-love, taking pride in what you do, dress better, creat a certain image of yourself.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.