SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hey guys was wondering if I could get some tips for boosted confidence.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Anyone have tips to sky rocket confidence?
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Wow I hadn't read Pook's 15 Laws before. Classic. Here is a summary:
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Now I realize what it means to be a don juan, thanx bud!PrettyBoyAJ said:
seymour butts
Don Juan
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Work out. A lot.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Get laid.
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this does not work in asia where the pvssies run extra small tight and wet. I accidentally busted in about 10 seconds after I tried this. Then, I substituted for yohimbine. Much better.real2 said:Stop jerking off.
No really, stop jerking off.
Guaranteed success after 7 days, or your monkey back!
The only real way to self confidence is to be confident in yourself. Thats a hard concept. But love yourself. If there is a part of yourself that you can just NOT love, then work on changing it. Otherwise, accept yourself as an awesomely supreme being, and treat yourself as such.
working out helps.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Not giving a f$&k, in the sense of being outcome dependent or what other people may think of you - trust the gut to see what's right for you ( that's not me syndrome). Get out of the comfort zone, challenge yourself, let go off the ego.Many people thought I was nuts to try certain things or go a certain path- too bad they were the best decisions I ve ever made. Knowlege and experience. Working out is a given, because confidence is physical just as much- probably the quickest way way to get it. Self-love, taking pride in what you do, dress better, creat a certain image of yourself.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.