SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hey guys was wondering if I could get some tips for boosted confidence.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Anyone have tips to sky rocket confidence?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Wow I hadn't read Pook's 15 Laws before. Classic. Here is a summary:
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Now I realize what it means to be a don juan, thanx bud!PrettyBoyAJ said:
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Work out. A lot.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Get laid.
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this does not work in asia where the pvssies run extra small tight and wet. I accidentally busted in about 10 seconds after I tried this. Then, I substituted for yohimbine. Much better.real2 said:Stop jerking off.
No really, stop jerking off.
Guaranteed success after 7 days, or your monkey back!
The only real way to self confidence is to be confident in yourself. Thats a hard concept. But love yourself. If there is a part of yourself that you can just NOT love, then work on changing it. Otherwise, accept yourself as an awesomely supreme being, and treat yourself as such.
working out helps.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Not giving a f$&k, in the sense of being outcome dependent or what other people may think of you - trust the gut to see what's right for you ( that's not me syndrome). Get out of the comfort zone, challenge yourself, let go off the ego.Many people thought I was nuts to try certain things or go a certain path- too bad they were the best decisions I ve ever made. Knowlege and experience. Working out is a given, because confidence is physical just as much- probably the quickest way way to get it. Self-love, taking pride in what you do, dress better, creat a certain image of yourself.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.