SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Hey guys was wondering if I could get some tips for boosted confidence.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Anyone have tips to sky rocket confidence?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Wow I hadn't read Pook's 15 Laws before. Classic. Here is a summary:
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
1) Rejection is better than Regret.
2) Friendship – Abandon all hope ye who enter!
3) Judge by actions, not by words.
4) Patience is the refined sense of confidence.
5) Trust the gut.
6) You are the Great Catch.
7) Respect is All.
8) Only the Sexual Ones get the girls.
9) Be not contained by formula.
10) As you think you shall become.
11) Getting a girl is not the success.
12) Unite Dream and Day.
13) Charm is treating women like little girls.
14) Always have a backup chick.
15) The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all!
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Now I realize what it means to be a don juan, thanx bud!PrettyBoyAJ said:
seymour butts
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Work out. A lot.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Get laid.
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
Sure fire way to boost your confidence.
Of course it's the same situation as needing money to make money...
powpow
Senior Don Juan
this does not work in asia where the pvssies run extra small tight and wet. I accidentally busted in about 10 seconds after I tried this. Then, I substituted for yohimbine. Much better.real2 said:Stop jerking off.
No really, stop jerking off.
Guaranteed success after 7 days, or your monkey back!
The only real way to self confidence is to be confident in yourself. Thats a hard concept. But love yourself. If there is a part of yourself that you can just NOT love, then work on changing it. Otherwise, accept yourself as an awesomely supreme being, and treat yourself as such.
working out helps.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Not giving a f$&k, in the sense of being outcome dependent or what other people may think of you - trust the gut to see what's right for you ( that's not me syndrome). Get out of the comfort zone, challenge yourself, let go off the ego.Many people thought I was nuts to try certain things or go a certain path- too bad they were the best decisions I ve ever made. Knowlege and experience. Working out is a given, because confidence is physical just as much- probably the quickest way way to get it. Self-love, taking pride in what you do, dress better, creat a certain image of yourself.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.