"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone have success messaging friends of friends on FB?

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green69

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Every now and then I'll stumble across a girl on FB that I've never met before but I have several mutual friends. I'm really tempted to throw her a message and saying what's up, I saw you on my friends page I thought you looked cute blah blah...but I'm not sure if I should do it.

It's not like messaging a random girl on POFSluts, on FB they have your real name and know who you're friends with. I guess the concern is that I come across as "that guy" who is a FB creeper messaging chicks. Then they might tell our mutual friends blah blah, you get the idea. Personally I don't do this but I'm curious as to whether other people are doing it and have had any repercussions (or success) from doing so.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea I've pulled a few on there but don't really go looking for it.

Sometimes if I get to chatting to a chick I'm friends with on there through mutual friends and I see some potential I shoot her a message with something along the lines of it was cool talking to you we should hang out sometime.
 
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Yeah, what I do is usually just add them. Most of the time they accept the friend request. If they say something witty in a status I'll make a comment off that and take the conversation from there.
 
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if i have met them, then yes i would add them. iw ould randomly add someone. thats just creepy.
 
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I have in the past, but I would ask permission of my friend before hand, or when posting to them make a ****y quip on something of their profile.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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