"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone have success messaging friends of friends on FB?

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green69

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Every now and then I'll stumble across a girl on FB that I've never met before but I have several mutual friends. I'm really tempted to throw her a message and saying what's up, I saw you on my friends page I thought you looked cute blah blah...but I'm not sure if I should do it.

It's not like messaging a random girl on POFSluts, on FB they have your real name and know who you're friends with. I guess the concern is that I come across as "that guy" who is a FB creeper messaging chicks. Then they might tell our mutual friends blah blah, you get the idea. Personally I don't do this but I'm curious as to whether other people are doing it and have had any repercussions (or success) from doing so.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shizz702

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Yea I've pulled a few on there but don't really go looking for it.

Sometimes if I get to chatting to a chick I'm friends with on there through mutual friends and I see some potential I shoot her a message with something along the lines of it was cool talking to you we should hang out sometime.
 
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Yeah, what I do is usually just add them. Most of the time they accept the friend request. If they say something witty in a status I'll make a comment off that and take the conversation from there.
 
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if i have met them, then yes i would add them. iw ould randomly add someone. thats just creepy.
 
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I have in the past, but I would ask permission of my friend before hand, or when posting to them make a ****y quip on something of their profile.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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