“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone have success messaging friends of friends on FB?

green69

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Every now and then I'll stumble across a girl on FB that I've never met before but I have several mutual friends. I'm really tempted to throw her a message and saying what's up, I saw you on my friends page I thought you looked cute blah blah...but I'm not sure if I should do it.

It's not like messaging a random girl on POFSluts, on FB they have your real name and know who you're friends with. I guess the concern is that I come across as "that guy" who is a FB creeper messaging chicks. Then they might tell our mutual friends blah blah, you get the idea. Personally I don't do this but I'm curious as to whether other people are doing it and have had any repercussions (or success) from doing so.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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shizz702

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Yea I've pulled a few on there but don't really go looking for it.

Sometimes if I get to chatting to a chick I'm friends with on there through mutual friends and I see some potential I shoot her a message with something along the lines of it was cool talking to you we should hang out sometime.
 

Alex DeLarge

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Yeah, what I do is usually just add them. Most of the time they accept the friend request. If they say something witty in a status I'll make a comment off that and take the conversation from there.
 

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if i have met them, then yes i would add them. iw ould randomly add someone. thats just creepy.
 

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I have in the past, but I would ask permission of my friend before hand, or when posting to them make a ****y quip on something of their profile.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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