"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone from Phoenix?

Slickster

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Hey guys,

I'm heading to Phoenix for a few days with my gf.

Just wondering if anyone is from there or has been there recently.

I would like some advice about the area. Things to check out, any "must see" stuff, cool places to go, restaurants, etc.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thanks.

Slick
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i'll ask my cohort out there, see what he says
 

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I'm in Phoenix. Check around N. Scottsdale (Kierland), Old town Scottsdale, Scottsdale Fashion Square, Mill Ave in Tempe and Desert Ridge Mall in NE Phoenix.
 

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heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
 

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Originally posted by resilient
heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
It's January and the high today is 68F.

Old Town Scottsdale, Mill Ave., and hike Camelback Mountain is what I suggest. Also see the gardens and Papago Park. If you have the opportunity check out the canyon, it's a 3 hour drive.

Just stay away from Mesa... Arizona's Compton.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses.

Had a great time in Phoenix and will go back someday.
 
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