"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone from Phoenix?

Slickster

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Hey guys,

I'm heading to Phoenix for a few days with my gf.

Just wondering if anyone is from there or has been there recently.

I would like some advice about the area. Things to check out, any "must see" stuff, cool places to go, restaurants, etc.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thanks.

Slick
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'll ask my cohort out there, see what he says
 

ER!C L!VE

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I'm in Phoenix. Check around N. Scottsdale (Kierland), Old town Scottsdale, Scottsdale Fashion Square, Mill Ave in Tempe and Desert Ridge Mall in NE Phoenix.
 

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heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
 

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Originally posted by resilient
heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
It's January and the high today is 68F.

Old Town Scottsdale, Mill Ave., and hike Camelback Mountain is what I suggest. Also see the gardens and Papago Park. If you have the opportunity check out the canyon, it's a 3 hour drive.

Just stay away from Mesa... Arizona's Compton.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses.

Had a great time in Phoenix and will go back someday.
 
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