"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone from Phoenix?

Slickster

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Hey guys,

I'm heading to Phoenix for a few days with my gf.

Just wondering if anyone is from there or has been there recently.

I would like some advice about the area. Things to check out, any "must see" stuff, cool places to go, restaurants, etc.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thanks.

Slick
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i'll ask my cohort out there, see what he says
 

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I'm in Phoenix. Check around N. Scottsdale (Kierland), Old town Scottsdale, Scottsdale Fashion Square, Mill Ave in Tempe and Desert Ridge Mall in NE Phoenix.
 

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heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
 

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Originally posted by resilient
heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
It's January and the high today is 68F.

Old Town Scottsdale, Mill Ave., and hike Camelback Mountain is what I suggest. Also see the gardens and Papago Park. If you have the opportunity check out the canyon, it's a 3 hour drive.

Just stay away from Mesa... Arizona's Compton.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses.

Had a great time in Phoenix and will go back someday.
 
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