"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone from Phoenix?

Slickster

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Hey guys,

I'm heading to Phoenix for a few days with my gf.

Just wondering if anyone is from there or has been there recently.

I would like some advice about the area. Things to check out, any "must see" stuff, cool places to go, restaurants, etc.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thanks.

Slick
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'll ask my cohort out there, see what he says
 

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I'm in Phoenix. Check around N. Scottsdale (Kierland), Old town Scottsdale, Scottsdale Fashion Square, Mill Ave in Tempe and Desert Ridge Mall in NE Phoenix.
 

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heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
 

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Originally posted by resilient
heh.. I was born in Scottsdale, but I live in Cali! Phoenix is way too hot to live there in the summer.
It's January and the high today is 68F.

Old Town Scottsdale, Mill Ave., and hike Camelback Mountain is what I suggest. Also see the gardens and Papago Park. If you have the opportunity check out the canyon, it's a 3 hour drive.

Just stay away from Mesa... Arizona's Compton.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys thanks for the responses.

Had a great time in Phoenix and will go back someday.
 
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