Romeobadboi
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anyone ever date a taller girl? how was it ,,,, weird cooll,,,,, did it work out ,,, any issues down the road about the height? did she mind being taller??
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
www.myliftkits.comLoneWolf said:yep. she was like 5'10 i was 5'8. i had to go on my toes to kiss her sometimes lol. it didn't really bother me but i would PREFER to be taller than a girl, or same height. look at tom cruise, he's smaller than almost every woman he's with![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is the exact same thing that happened to me once. 6'1", 5'10", Heels -> Weird.49au said:I'm 6'1", dated a 5'10" girl off and on for a while. She openly admitted that any guy shorter than her completely turned her off instantly. And even though I was taller, her height was a turn off to me...
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".Fuglydude said:My fiance is 5'9" and I'm 5'8"... She said she'd have an issue with it if I wasn't "wide". If you're big/jacked most girls won't mind dating you if you're 1-2 inches shorter than her.
Here's some other suggestions:Mantis Toboggan said:You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".