Romeobadboi
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 9, 2011
- Messages
- 18
- Reaction score
- 0
anyone ever date a taller girl? how was it ,,,, weird cooll,,,,, did it work out ,,, any issues down the road about the height? did she mind being taller??
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Anyone ever date a taller girl?
- Thread starter Romeobadboi
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yep. she was like 5'10 i was 5'8. i had to go on my toes to kiss her sometimes lol. it didn't really bother me but i would PREFER to be taller than a girl, or same height. look at tom cruise, he's smaller than almost every woman he's with 
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
As a 5'6 guy, I can see it happening down the line.
The girl I'm chasing is 5'8 so that may be interesting, if I ever manage to get her.
I think the real issues comes when a girl wheres heals. For example if a 5'8 with heals will be near 6 feet and just tower over me. Though I could always wear platform shoes
Heck, all my shoes have a 1-inch insole and I'm about 5'7.5 wearing shoes+insole.
The girl I'm chasing is 5'8 so that may be interesting, if I ever manage to get her.
I think the real issues comes when a girl wheres heals. For example if a 5'8 with heals will be near 6 feet and just tower over me. Though I could always wear platform shoes
Heck, all my shoes have a 1-inch insole and I'm about 5'7.5 wearing shoes+insole.
www.myliftkits.comLoneWolf said:yep. she was like 5'10 i was 5'8. i had to go on my toes to kiss her sometimes lol. it didn't really bother me but i would PREFER to be taller than a girl, or same height. look at tom cruise, he's smaller than almost every woman he's with
don't hesitate buy some now they're not expensive. Thank me later
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Yup. I'm 5'9 and dated (I use this term loosely, she was more of a fvck buddy) a 6'1 volleyball player for 2+ years and still get to fvck her whenever she's not in a relationship. I never really thought about until I wanted to fvck her doggystyle while she was wearing some pumps. Lol, I had stand on my bed, but she didn't give a fvck cuz I always tore the pvssy up properly. She didn't mind being taller, it was always hella cool cuz she always catered to me. Giving her facials was kind of a task cuz she would never get low enough in time, but so the fvck what. Honestly tho, most of the time we were sitting down, laying down, or she was laying across my lap so it never really made a difference. Neither of our friends ever made jokes, but then again, only a handful knew. My homeboy who is 5'7 (Filipino) dated a 6'2 white chick and only the haters ever said anything, and that was only to me and never to his face.
In a nutshell, as long as you maintain your swagger, the sh!t don't matter.
In a nutshell, as long as you maintain your swagger, the sh!t don't matter.
Romeobadboi
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 9, 2011
- Messages
- 18
- Reaction score
- 0
thanks for the info brothers
I'm 6'1", dated a 5'10" girl off and on for a while. She openly admitted that any guy shorter than her completely turned her off instantly. And even though I was taller, her height was a turn off to me...
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Embrace your height.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If a girl is attracted to you, then height isn't an issue. As pointed out earlier, Tom Cruise (generously listed at 5'7) is married to Katie Holmes (5'9) and used to be married to Nicole Kidman (5'11).
I've dated 3 girls taller than me. Two of them were only 1 and 2 inches taller but one of them was 4 inches taller. Honestly, the height thing was never much of an issue. Occasionally they'd joke about it, but it wasn't a big deal.
Certainly, for a lot of girls, you being shorter is a deal breaker. But for a lot of women, it's not. In my experience, the really tall girls are much more willing to date shorter dudes. I guess it's because a lot of guys fell insecure around them, so they're a lot less picky.
I've dated 3 girls taller than me. Two of them were only 1 and 2 inches taller but one of them was 4 inches taller. Honestly, the height thing was never much of an issue. Occasionally they'd joke about it, but it wasn't a big deal.
Certainly, for a lot of girls, you being shorter is a deal breaker. But for a lot of women, it's not. In my experience, the really tall girls are much more willing to date shorter dudes. I guess it's because a lot of guys fell insecure around them, so they're a lot less picky.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
My fiance is 5'9" and I'm 5'8"... She said she'd have an issue with it if I wasn't "wide". If you're big/jacked most girls won't mind dating you if you're 1-2 inches shorter than her.
Mantis Toboggan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 27, 2010
- Messages
- 859
- Reaction score
- 58
You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".Fuglydude said:
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Here's some other suggestions:Mantis Toboggan said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180109
I haven't had time to post long detailed posts lately cuz my work/training schedule has been nasty. Plus lots of stuff going on. "Get jacked" takes a few seconds to type and is the single easiest thing you can do to get laid without really having to try too hard.