Romeobadboi
Don Juan
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anyone ever date a taller girl? how was it ,,,, weird cooll,,,,, did it work out ,,, any issues down the road about the height? did she mind being taller??
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
www.myliftkits.comLoneWolf said:yep. she was like 5'10 i was 5'8. i had to go on my toes to kiss her sometimes lol. it didn't really bother me but i would PREFER to be taller than a girl, or same height. look at tom cruise, he's smaller than almost every woman he's with![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is the exact same thing that happened to me once. 6'1", 5'10", Heels -> Weird.49au said:I'm 6'1", dated a 5'10" girl off and on for a while. She openly admitted that any guy shorter than her completely turned her off instantly. And even though I was taller, her height was a turn off to me...
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".Fuglydude said:My fiance is 5'9" and I'm 5'8"... She said she'd have an issue with it if I wasn't "wide". If you're big/jacked most girls won't mind dating you if you're 1-2 inches shorter than her.
Here's some other suggestions:Mantis Toboggan said:You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".