Romeobadboi
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anyone ever date a taller girl? how was it ,,,, weird cooll,,,,, did it work out ,,, any issues down the road about the height? did she mind being taller??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anyone ever date a taller girl?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yep. she was like 5'10 i was 5'8. i had to go on my toes to kiss her sometimes lol. it didn't really bother me but i would PREFER to be taller than a girl, or same height. look at tom cruise, he's smaller than almost every woman he's with 
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
As a 5'6 guy, I can see it happening down the line.
The girl I'm chasing is 5'8 so that may be interesting, if I ever manage to get her.
I think the real issues comes when a girl wheres heals. For example if a 5'8 with heals will be near 6 feet and just tower over me. Though I could always wear platform shoes
Heck, all my shoes have a 1-inch insole and I'm about 5'7.5 wearing shoes+insole.
The girl I'm chasing is 5'8 so that may be interesting, if I ever manage to get her.
I think the real issues comes when a girl wheres heals. For example if a 5'8 with heals will be near 6 feet and just tower over me. Though I could always wear platform shoes
Heck, all my shoes have a 1-inch insole and I'm about 5'7.5 wearing shoes+insole.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Yup. I'm 5'9 and dated (I use this term loosely, she was more of a fvck buddy) a 6'1 volleyball player for 2+ years and still get to fvck her whenever she's not in a relationship. I never really thought about until I wanted to fvck her doggystyle while she was wearing some pumps. Lol, I had stand on my bed, but she didn't give a fvck cuz I always tore the pvssy up properly. She didn't mind being taller, it was always hella cool cuz she always catered to me. Giving her facials was kind of a task cuz she would never get low enough in time, but so the fvck what. Honestly tho, most of the time we were sitting down, laying down, or she was laying across my lap so it never really made a difference. Neither of our friends ever made jokes, but then again, only a handful knew. My homeboy who is 5'7 (Filipino) dated a 6'2 white chick and only the haters ever said anything, and that was only to me and never to his face.
In a nutshell, as long as you maintain your swagger, the sh!t don't matter.
In a nutshell, as long as you maintain your swagger, the sh!t don't matter.
Romeobadboi
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thanks for the info brothers
I'm 6'1", dated a 5'10" girl off and on for a while. She openly admitted that any guy shorter than her completely turned her off instantly. And even though I was taller, her height was a turn off to me...
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
When she wore heels we were the same height. Just felt weird.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Embrace your height.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If a girl is attracted to you, then height isn't an issue. As pointed out earlier, Tom Cruise (generously listed at 5'7) is married to Katie Holmes (5'9) and used to be married to Nicole Kidman (5'11).
I've dated 3 girls taller than me. Two of them were only 1 and 2 inches taller but one of them was 4 inches taller. Honestly, the height thing was never much of an issue. Occasionally they'd joke about it, but it wasn't a big deal.
Certainly, for a lot of girls, you being shorter is a deal breaker. But for a lot of women, it's not. In my experience, the really tall girls are much more willing to date shorter dudes. I guess it's because a lot of guys fell insecure around them, so they're a lot less picky.
I've dated 3 girls taller than me. Two of them were only 1 and 2 inches taller but one of them was 4 inches taller. Honestly, the height thing was never much of an issue. Occasionally they'd joke about it, but it wasn't a big deal.
Certainly, for a lot of girls, you being shorter is a deal breaker. But for a lot of women, it's not. In my experience, the really tall girls are much more willing to date shorter dudes. I guess it's because a lot of guys fell insecure around them, so they're a lot less picky.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
My fiance is 5'9" and I'm 5'8"... She said she'd have an issue with it if I wasn't "wide". If you're big/jacked most girls won't mind dating you if you're 1-2 inches shorter than her.
Mantis Toboggan
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You know, I appreciate the advice you give and all...but it'd be nice if you threw around some suggestions other than "get jacked".Fuglydude said:
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Here's some other suggestions:Mantis Toboggan said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180109
I haven't had time to post long detailed posts lately cuz my work/training schedule has been nasty. Plus lots of stuff going on. "Get jacked" takes a few seconds to type and is the single easiest thing you can do to get laid without really having to try too hard.