You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do I sense another disbeliever?DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
P.S.DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Going for 'most irony in a two word post of the year'?PrinceBeavis said:^ pure ignorance.
WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).Dongfu said:Just hooked up with one a couple days ago. Great in bed, fun, very straight up. No expectations, no pressure. I'm considering dating her, and that is saying alot for me. Maybe I just found a good one. I'll also note that she said she doesnt identify with russians, and has no more russian friends.
Also important. Russian women are not religious, so no hang ups about sex. You can be very straight forward.
Wow, forgive me bro. I was always lead to believe that Russia, mostly due to communism, was not a religious country. I know communism is over, so I guess the religious people are there. The girl I date is not religious, that's all I know. And she's nothing like an American girl.meitenesrigas said:WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).
Everything on here is dealing with AMERICANS. Not people from the former Soviet Union. That would require you guys to do something other than watch reruns of "Entourage" all day. What a group of ignorant fools.
http://video.mail.ru/mail/madeinrussia_tv/madeinrussia/49.html
Muslims are very common in the Former Soviet Union. I won't even get into the whole Chechen thing. Those broads blow themselves up for their God. Not too religious...eh?![]()
Orthodox Church is VERY important throughout most of the region. Lithuanians and some Latvians, on the other hand, are VERY Catholic. Some Ukraines are also Eastern Catholics.
I won't even get into all the Jesus Freaks and Mormons I see every single day running around. My town is in the process of building a Mormon (LDS) Temple. There is even a Black African dude in Kyiv who is an Evangelical who has thousands of members in his Church. Hell, this place is getting to be more and more like the Deep South or Texas. The mayor of Kyiv is also a devout Evangelical.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=iLueOHnAMuM
America or Ukraine??? You boys have lots to learn.
Pretty much everything you guys say about the girls is TOTALLY WRONG. This is really funny from over here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I lol'dselfmademob said:In Soviet Russia, the girl dates you!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This coming from a boy who writes posts referring himself as a "Nigga". Keep on making up the stories.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
It's events like this that will get your inner game tight. You can look back and make a decision right now to never let an opportunity like that get away again.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.