Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do I sense another disbeliever?DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
P.S.DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Going for 'most irony in a two word post of the year'?PrinceBeavis said:^ pure ignorance.
WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).Dongfu said:Just hooked up with one a couple days ago. Great in bed, fun, very straight up. No expectations, no pressure. I'm considering dating her, and that is saying alot for me. Maybe I just found a good one. I'll also note that she said she doesnt identify with russians, and has no more russian friends.
Also important. Russian women are not religious, so no hang ups about sex. You can be very straight forward.
Wow, forgive me bro. I was always lead to believe that Russia, mostly due to communism, was not a religious country. I know communism is over, so I guess the religious people are there. The girl I date is not religious, that's all I know. And she's nothing like an American girl.meitenesrigas said:WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).
Everything on here is dealing with AMERICANS. Not people from the former Soviet Union. That would require you guys to do something other than watch reruns of "Entourage" all day. What a group of ignorant fools.
http://video.mail.ru/mail/madeinrussia_tv/madeinrussia/49.html
Muslims are very common in the Former Soviet Union. I won't even get into the whole Chechen thing. Those broads blow themselves up for their God. Not too religious...eh?![]()
Orthodox Church is VERY important throughout most of the region. Lithuanians and some Latvians, on the other hand, are VERY Catholic. Some Ukraines are also Eastern Catholics.
I won't even get into all the Jesus Freaks and Mormons I see every single day running around. My town is in the process of building a Mormon (LDS) Temple. There is even a Black African dude in Kyiv who is an Evangelical who has thousands of members in his Church. Hell, this place is getting to be more and more like the Deep South or Texas. The mayor of Kyiv is also a devout Evangelical.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=iLueOHnAMuM
America or Ukraine??? You boys have lots to learn.
Pretty much everything you guys say about the girls is TOTALLY WRONG. This is really funny from over here.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I lol'dselfmademob said:In Soviet Russia, the girl dates you!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This coming from a boy who writes posts referring himself as a "Nigga". Keep on making up the stories.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
It's events like this that will get your inner game tight. You can look back and make a decision right now to never let an opportunity like that get away again.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.