That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do I sense another disbeliever?DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
P.S.DJVladdy said:Did she also hang out with strippers while growing up, mr dong?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Going for 'most irony in a two word post of the year'?PrinceBeavis said:^ pure ignorance.
WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).Dongfu said:Just hooked up with one a couple days ago. Great in bed, fun, very straight up. No expectations, no pressure. I'm considering dating her, and that is saying alot for me. Maybe I just found a good one. I'll also note that she said she doesnt identify with russians, and has no more russian friends.
Also important. Russian women are not religious, so no hang ups about sex. You can be very straight forward.
Wow, forgive me bro. I was always lead to believe that Russia, mostly due to communism, was not a religious country. I know communism is over, so I guess the religious people are there. The girl I date is not religious, that's all I know. And she's nothing like an American girl.meitenesrigas said:WTF? They are not religious? How long have you or anyone else lived in the region? There is only one other guy I know of (besides me) who has a place in the former Soviet Union and he doesn't post (he just laughs at you guys).
Everything on here is dealing with AMERICANS. Not people from the former Soviet Union. That would require you guys to do something other than watch reruns of "Entourage" all day. What a group of ignorant fools.
http://video.mail.ru/mail/madeinrussia_tv/madeinrussia/49.html
Muslims are very common in the Former Soviet Union. I won't even get into the whole Chechen thing. Those broads blow themselves up for their God. Not too religious...eh?![]()
Orthodox Church is VERY important throughout most of the region. Lithuanians and some Latvians, on the other hand, are VERY Catholic. Some Ukraines are also Eastern Catholics.
I won't even get into all the Jesus Freaks and Mormons I see every single day running around. My town is in the process of building a Mormon (LDS) Temple. There is even a Black African dude in Kyiv who is an Evangelical who has thousands of members in his Church. Hell, this place is getting to be more and more like the Deep South or Texas. The mayor of Kyiv is also a devout Evangelical.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=iLueOHnAMuM
America or Ukraine??? You boys have lots to learn.
Pretty much everything you guys say about the girls is TOTALLY WRONG. This is really funny from over here.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I lol'dselfmademob said:In Soviet Russia, the girl dates you!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This coming from a boy who writes posts referring himself as a "Nigga". Keep on making up the stories.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
It's events like this that will get your inner game tight. You can look back and make a decision right now to never let an opportunity like that get away again.mongolboy said:OMG RUSSIAN GIRLS LOL! when i lived in russia i remember this one time this girl one of my friends friendcame up to me when she was drunk started hittin on me HARDCORE at the end she was like have you ever had sex i was like no, she was like want me to SHOW YOU! i didnt cuz i was such a lil ***** and im not a desperate lil ***** either too so just cuz i was young and was not certain
BUT RUSSIAN GIRLS ARE CRAZY !!! LOL
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.