"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone ever been in this situation?

blinkwatt

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Met this chick,got her number,has a boyfriend,hung out a few times,she calls me everyday although I dont pick up everyday. I told her to make a choice,"no more games,make a choice",referring choosing between me and her boyfriend. She says she doesnt know,and still calls me everyday. I dont answer half the time,she will call me 2 times a day,Iam busy with work or picking up on another girl. I never iniatiate a phone call with her(I will call her back every once awhile),but when she calls I keep it short and tell her just to call me when she is cool enough to hang out with me. She will let me lay some kino on her,holding hands but I dont do that often,but she wont let me take it far. This has been going on for two weeks now. How do I make her make up her damn mind and no more games. Personally all I see her for now is a fcuking buddy down the road,perfect body,amazing face and she plays hard to get sometimes. Any input on what to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
 

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Dodgeball said:
You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
Yes I see where you are coming from. Another buddy I meet off here said the same. Just sarge on and deal with her as she comes. Many thanks dodgeball.
 
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