Met this chick,got her number,has a boyfriend,hung out a few times,she calls me everyday although I dont pick up everyday. I told her to make a choice,"no more games,make a choice",referring choosing between me and her boyfriend. She says she doesnt know,and still calls me everyday. I dont answer half the time,she will call me 2 times a day,Iam busy with work or picking up on another girl. I never iniatiate a phone call with her(I will call her back every once awhile),but when she calls I keep it short and tell her just to call me when she is cool enough to hang out with me. She will let me lay some kino on her,holding hands but I dont do that often,but she wont let me take it far. This has been going on for two weeks now. How do I make her make up her damn mind and no more games. Personally all I see her for now is a fcuking buddy down the road,perfect body,amazing face and she plays hard to get sometimes. Any input on what to do?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Anyone ever been in this situation?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
- Start date