"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone ever been in this situation?

blinkwatt

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Met this chick,got her number,has a boyfriend,hung out a few times,she calls me everyday although I dont pick up everyday. I told her to make a choice,"no more games,make a choice",referring choosing between me and her boyfriend. She says she doesnt know,and still calls me everyday. I dont answer half the time,she will call me 2 times a day,Iam busy with work or picking up on another girl. I never iniatiate a phone call with her(I will call her back every once awhile),but when she calls I keep it short and tell her just to call me when she is cool enough to hang out with me. She will let me lay some kino on her,holding hands but I dont do that often,but she wont let me take it far. This has been going on for two weeks now. How do I make her make up her damn mind and no more games. Personally all I see her for now is a fcuking buddy down the road,perfect body,amazing face and she plays hard to get sometimes. Any input on what to do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
 

blinkwatt

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Dodgeball said:
You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
Yes I see where you are coming from. Another buddy I meet off here said the same. Just sarge on and deal with her as she comes. Many thanks dodgeball.
 
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