"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever been in this situation?

blinkwatt

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Met this chick,got her number,has a boyfriend,hung out a few times,she calls me everyday although I dont pick up everyday. I told her to make a choice,"no more games,make a choice",referring choosing between me and her boyfriend. She says she doesnt know,and still calls me everyday. I dont answer half the time,she will call me 2 times a day,Iam busy with work or picking up on another girl. I never iniatiate a phone call with her(I will call her back every once awhile),but when she calls I keep it short and tell her just to call me when she is cool enough to hang out with me. She will let me lay some kino on her,holding hands but I dont do that often,but she wont let me take it far. This has been going on for two weeks now. How do I make her make up her damn mind and no more games. Personally all I see her for now is a fcuking buddy down the road,perfect body,amazing face and she plays hard to get sometimes. Any input on what to do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dodgeball

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You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
 

blinkwatt

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Dodgeball said:
You can only do all you can, knowing the game, applying stuff isnt a miracle worker there are still some that stay in the cracks, my advice would be to move on and meet another girl for **** buddy, some girl who's single, some are usually single for a reason.

-Dodgeball
Yes I see where you are coming from. Another buddy I meet off here said the same. Just sarge on and deal with her as she comes. Many thanks dodgeball.
 
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