Met this chick,got her number,has a boyfriend,hung out a few times,she calls me everyday although I dont pick up everyday. I told her to make a choice,"no more games,make a choice",referring choosing between me and her boyfriend. She says she doesnt know,and still calls me everyday. I dont answer half the time,she will call me 2 times a day,Iam busy with work or picking up on another girl. I never iniatiate a phone call with her(I will call her back every once awhile),but when she calls I keep it short and tell her just to call me when she is cool enough to hang out with me. She will let me lay some kino on her,holding hands but I dont do that often,but she wont let me take it far. This has been going on for two weeks now. How do I make her make up her damn mind and no more games. Personally all I see her for now is a fcuking buddy down the road,perfect body,amazing face and she plays hard to get sometimes. Any input on what to do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Anyone ever been in this situation?
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