ThisIsSparta
Master Don Juan
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Disagreeing with me is totaly fine!I respectfully disagree with you on this one Sparta. There are 2 possible issues at play here, underpinning why someone would be unattracted to a woman who has travelled.
1. Feeling challenged
People who travel naturally gain a richer and deeper view of themselves and their place in the wider world. Thats why a lot of young people take a gap year to travel around the world. The self-discovery value of these adventures is broadly acknowledged. A person who travels has a more open mind, has more social depth and has more exciting stories to tell. A man encountering a woman displaying these qualities may feel a little inadequate, uninteresting and challenged.
2. A superiority complex
Referring to some parts of the world as second and thirld world ***holes is disrespectful at the very least. But setting the obvious disrespect aside; it hints at a mind-frame of superiority. It appears that in your book, if a woman has travelled to ***hole countries she automatically becomes tainted and tarnished, and her value drops because she has rubbed shoulders with communities you consider to be beneath you.
If one or both of these 2 scenarios apply to you, then you very much need to work on your inner self a bit more my brother.
1. I do not feel challenged by women that are broke 90% of the year, that live in a "****hole"-apartment 90% of the year to save money for their next trip and ask the next best simp for money to repair their crappy car.
2. I do not feel challenged by women that have seen 20 countries abroad but cant pull their weight in a LTR.
3. I do not need a more open mind, more social depth and more exciting stories to tell and i dont require a woman with these qualities. For all the "social depth" these women tend to be the "independend strong women" that cant be bothered to take their place in a family and set aside their selfishness.
4. I do not feel inadequate, uninteresting and challenged, i do not feel attracted to the minds and souls of these women.
5. I respect my ancestors that have built a wonderful country out of blood, sweat and tears. I dont have to respect people that keep ****ting in holes and cut other peoples heads off over their religious believes or cartel-feuds.
6. Asides from that, a mind-frame of superiority is nothing to be ashamed of. People do it here all the time when they talk about the sexual market value of men and women for example.