Anyone Else Unattracted to Women Who have Traveled?

[FuzzX]

Guys travel for adventure and that works out pretty well... women who travel alone are putting themselves in serious danger. Its dangerous as fvck for guys out there but women who do it alone are just plain stupid. Never met an American chick abroad that I liked, NEVER and I spent most of my twenties and thirties in other countries. Backpackers are the worst.

<-- this is what happens when a chick wanders around alone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

As I mentioned, it seems to set an expectation that she wants someone to blow their money on traveling, which I would not. So "incompatibility" would probably be the best word to use when running across these profiles. There's just so many. And take for instance this girl I'm chatting with asked me where is my favorite destination to visit as her first question. I say Miami. She then replies she likes Greece and South Africa. That's a NEXT in my book.

Definitely incompatible. I would 100x rather pay for experiences and memories than material things so I will take those woman and they can come travel with me hahaha

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Definitely incompatible. I would 100x rather pay for experiences and memories than material things so I will take those woman and they can come travel with me hahaha

Well..... thats kinda relative. Overseas traveling can be viewed as a consumer good, you pay for an experience.
You consume, which is all fine and well, but in the end you pay for a flight, for that hotel, for the taxi, for that boat-fee etc. which are after all material things.

The failure in your thinking is, that "non-traveling" people do not pay for experiences and memories. They might be paying for other things, but they still have experiences and memories. For example putting that money aside for a larger home with a garden for the family, for their kids first car, having pets etc.etc. which will all generate (beautiful) experiences and memories.

The only difference is in the value a subject puts on the bought "experiences and memories".

People have different values and not all people are compatible.
And thats why there is nothing wrong with finding the travel-chicks unattractive due to their mindset.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well..... thats kinda relative. Overseas traveling can be viewed as a consumer good, you pay for an experience.
You consume, which is all fine and well, but in the end you pay for a flight, for that hotel, for the taxi, for that boat-fee etc. which are after all material things.

The failure in your thinking is, that "non-traveling" people do not pay for experiences and memories. They might be paying for other things, but they still have experiences and memories. For example putting that money aside for a larger home with a garden for the family, for their kids first car, having pets etc.etc. which will all generate (beautiful) experiences and memories.

The only difference is in the value a subject puts on the bought "experiences and memories".

People have different values and not all people are compatible.
And thats why there is nothing wrong with finding the travel-chicks unattractive due to their mindset.

I would say it's more of an imbalance with someone being adventurous versus not adventurous.
Until trains and other modes of transportation made it easy to travel in the early 1800s, a lot of people never travelled more than 25 miles from where they were born in their entire lifetime.

Some people still have that mindset today but to a less extreme degree...they have always lived in the same place, don't travel much and don't want to see other places and find adventure, etc...

Those people are not compatible with ones who do want adventure. One person will always be trying to stay where they are to do things and the other will be wanting to go places to do things.

There isn't anything wrong with one style versus the other they are just different.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Those people are not compatible with ones who do want adventure.

Agreed, except that the term "adventure" is subjective. You can start an adventure in front of your house. You do not have to go 5000+ miles.

Driving up the Nile in a tourist-boat might be ones adventure. For another one that MMA-Fight against the local champion he is training for is his adventure.

As you say, it all comes down to personal preference.

And in the end, excluding women that have differing personal preferences is quite natural and NOT "dumb" as some here put it.