Anyone else thinks women come to you only when you dont need them

[sosousage]

cuz they want to be part of your perfect life

 

[marmel75]

You should never need a woman.

 

[Billtx49]

cuz they want to be part of your perfect life

No. The basic rule of life is that things can happen when you least expect them to…

 

[RickTheToad]

Usually, things come to you easilly when you do not need or expect it. When you need money, banks won't lend. When you don't need it, they lend away. When you already have a lady or harim, other ones hover around you. When you don't have either, they have no interest. Kind of like you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If you have a successful business it's easy to borrow money and use that to start another successful business.

If you've got a girl (or a few) you are much less desperate and much more yourself around other attractive women.

Success generally breeds success.

Failure also breeds failure.

Many cycles are self reinforcing.

 

[captain55]

Impossible to answer every chick is different. Some women like to be confidently pursued (not chased), some women get off to being ignored, some women are feminists and want a beta they can control so they may like a guy being desperate af. The only rule to this game is to have fun with it, pursuing women should be fun.

 

[RickTheToad]

If you have a successful business it's easy to borrow money and use that to start another successful business.

If you've got a girl (or a few) you are much less desperate and much more yourself around other attractive women.

Success generally breeds success.

Failure also breeds failure.

Many cycles are self reinforcing.

Going to have to partly disagree with you, respectfully, on the finance part. One, if you are just starting out, you will not have the successful business to piggyback off of as a starting off point. Two, when the banks freeze up lending services or tighten lending requirements; you're SOL. Between 2009 - 2011 it was very hard to get LOCs and loans for businesses; let alone personal even with a high credit score and collateral.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe women come to you when you have a high SMV.

I dont need a woman at all now, actually (surprisingly) everything is going great in my life for the first time in decades, yet I dont have women throwing themselves at me.

 

[Mike32ct]

I’ve had plenty of times when I didn’t need them. I took plenty of breaks and went MGTOW/monk mode at various times. I never noticed a difference in how women acted around me.

 

[jaymbrs]

Women (and men) can sense neediness and it's an automatic turnoff.

 

[RickTheToad]

Men need to be aloof and be mysterious in order to keep a lady interested. It's not rocket science, as most men are actually an open book and blowing up their phone. Be different. Stand out.

 

[Tilex]

No
That sounds illogical.

It's really about your vibe and the way you present yourself.
Your inner confidence projects your outer presentation.
But regardless if you need women or not, you still have to initiate conversations with them.

 

[sosousage]

You should never need a woman.

I SUGGEST YOU TEST YOUR T LEVELS

 

[Mike32ct]

With all the options women have today, I’m not sure being non-needy/DGAF makes any difference in 2019.

Sure, being too needy is bad and can hurt your game. But IDGAF is probably neutral in its effect on attraction, at best.

 

[sosousage]

With all the options women have today, I’m not sure being non-needy/DGAF makes any difference in 2019.

Sure, being too needy is bad and can hurt your game. But IDGAF is probably neutral in its effect on attraction, at best.

yea why would they need to chase u when they have chadlites in inbox

 

[marmel75]

I SUGGEST YOU TEST YOUR T LEVELS

Hurry up little troll...jump aboard...all your friends are leaving...

 

[Mike32ct]

yea why would they need to chase u when they have chadlites in inbox

Exactly. Mr. Normie can be as aloof/distant as he wants (whether for real or acting).

But if he does that to a chick that wanted to date him, she’ll then give up on him (because she’s not going to work too hard just to get a Normie). She will then aim for Chadlite or at least a higher tier Normie.

 

[bigdave17]

My life is totally perfect and i get no quality women

 

[sosousage]

My life is totally perfect and i get no quality women

Lmao

Go for average

 

[bigdave17]

Lmao

Go for average

My life is ridiculously perfect

Work easy ass job where I make 180K in a cheap area with super chill co workers and great managers
Buy and eat and do whatever I want and still save 5K a month
Go on like 8 vacations per year to all sorts of awesome spots
Fantastic siblings, parents, friends
Zero stress lifestyle