"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone else think blondes are overrated?

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I think they are.

Most girls look stupid with platinum dyed hair or dyed blonde hair in general. I do not understand the fixation about blondes. I have a few friends who won't think a girl is hot unless she is blonde. Funny thing is, I have dark hair and dark eyes, so you would think blondes would do if for me the most, NOPE! Light colored eyes are very nice, but nothing beats a girl with medium brown hair of jet black hair. I some how associate dark haired girls with intelligence and class.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
 

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:yes: I'm with you guys...
 

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BTW: Blondes think their hair color is a license to have a sh!tty attitude.
:nono:
Blonde hair = Assume -2 HB points right from the jump (until she proves otherwise).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I generally find brunettes more attractive personally, though being blonde doesn't disqualify any woman (though I might say so just to fvck with her head hehe).
 

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Hell yeah. A dark brunette is 10x hotter then any blonde
 

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In my oppinion a brunette can be just as hot as a blonde, its just that there are more hot blondes then hot brunettes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've been attracted to girls of all hair color, but the past several years I've realized that I like really dark hair the most. Jet black hair with dark eyes and a cute face is absolutely killer for me.
 

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Makes little difference in my opinion; you get hot blondes, you get hot brunettes. Actually I'd say hair style is much more important than colour.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha, I always thought I didn't care about hair color. I do agree that style matters most, but a year or two ago I realize from afar, I always thought to myself blondes were hotter than brunettes. I can't see anything but their hair color, and i subconsiously decided the blondes were better lookin'. I thought it was weird. I ain't gonna dis a girl because of her hair, as long as it looks good. I think I just find blondes a little more attractive.
 

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Vulpine said:
*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
Agreed.
 

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I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:

Of course, most of you can't even find Estonia on a map.
 

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sparky0000 said:
I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:
I bet not. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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