"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone else think blondes are overrated?

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I think they are.

Most girls look stupid with platinum dyed hair or dyed blonde hair in general. I do not understand the fixation about blondes. I have a few friends who won't think a girl is hot unless she is blonde. Funny thing is, I have dark hair and dark eyes, so you would think blondes would do if for me the most, NOPE! Light colored eyes are very nice, but nothing beats a girl with medium brown hair of jet black hair. I some how associate dark haired girls with intelligence and class.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
 

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:yes: I'm with you guys...
 

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BTW: Blondes think their hair color is a license to have a sh!tty attitude.
:nono:
Blonde hair = Assume -2 HB points right from the jump (until she proves otherwise).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I generally find brunettes more attractive personally, though being blonde doesn't disqualify any woman (though I might say so just to fvck with her head hehe).
 

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Hell yeah. A dark brunette is 10x hotter then any blonde
 

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In my oppinion a brunette can be just as hot as a blonde, its just that there are more hot blondes then hot brunettes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been attracted to girls of all hair color, but the past several years I've realized that I like really dark hair the most. Jet black hair with dark eyes and a cute face is absolutely killer for me.
 

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Makes little difference in my opinion; you get hot blondes, you get hot brunettes. Actually I'd say hair style is much more important than colour.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha, I always thought I didn't care about hair color. I do agree that style matters most, but a year or two ago I realize from afar, I always thought to myself blondes were hotter than brunettes. I can't see anything but their hair color, and i subconsiously decided the blondes were better lookin'. I thought it was weird. I ain't gonna dis a girl because of her hair, as long as it looks good. I think I just find blondes a little more attractive.
 

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Vulpine said:
*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
Agreed.
 

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I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:

Of course, most of you can't even find Estonia on a map.
 

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sparky0000 said:
I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:
I bet not. :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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