"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone else think blondes are overrated?

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I think they are.

Most girls look stupid with platinum dyed hair or dyed blonde hair in general. I do not understand the fixation about blondes. I have a few friends who won't think a girl is hot unless she is blonde. Funny thing is, I have dark hair and dark eyes, so you would think blondes would do if for me the most, NOPE! Light colored eyes are very nice, but nothing beats a girl with medium brown hair of jet black hair. I some how associate dark haired girls with intelligence and class.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
 
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:yes: I'm with you guys...
 
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BTW: Blondes think their hair color is a license to have a sh!tty attitude.
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Blonde hair = Assume -2 HB points right from the jump (until she proves otherwise).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I generally find brunettes more attractive personally, though being blonde doesn't disqualify any woman (though I might say so just to fvck with her head hehe).
 
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Hell yeah. A dark brunette is 10x hotter then any blonde
 
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In my oppinion a brunette can be just as hot as a blonde, its just that there are more hot blondes then hot brunettes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been attracted to girls of all hair color, but the past several years I've realized that I like really dark hair the most. Jet black hair with dark eyes and a cute face is absolutely killer for me.
 
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Makes little difference in my opinion; you get hot blondes, you get hot brunettes. Actually I'd say hair style is much more important than colour.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha, I always thought I didn't care about hair color. I do agree that style matters most, but a year or two ago I realize from afar, I always thought to myself blondes were hotter than brunettes. I can't see anything but their hair color, and i subconsiously decided the blondes were better lookin'. I thought it was weird. I ain't gonna dis a girl because of her hair, as long as it looks good. I think I just find blondes a little more attractive.
 
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Vulpine said:
*raises hand*

I'm all about the jet black hair also.
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Agreed.
 
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I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:

Of course, most of you can't even find Estonia on a map.
 
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I bet if some of you went to Estonia you would change your minds. :rolleyes:
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I bet not. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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