"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone else really picky about looks?

nilescrane

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I have a particular type I like for dating/relationships both looks and personality wise and don't budge one bit. For just sex/friendship/dating though, it's more about pure sexual attraction and the girl not being a b*tch and tolerable to be around. I still find myself, due to a combination of bad location and my own pickiness, only sexually drawn to a small percentage of women.

For one, I'm only attracted to white women. I don't care blonde/brunette/redhead for sex (for dating I like the brunette/artsy/classy type.) But I seem to have a very particular look I go for even for sex. I like the natural beauty look. Of course, every woman wears some makeup and puts effort into her wardrobe, but I don't like the women you see at porn or the typical club wh*re. I like women like Heather Graham, Robin Tunney (from The Mentalist), Rachel Weisz...women that look like even if they weren't wearing any makeup and put on jogging pants and a t-shirt, they'd still look better than the girl with the fake tan and make-up.

The idea of having sex with a "regular girl" (unless I was in love with her and she was hot to me) isn't an option for me.

Anyone else this picky, even about just sex?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nilescrane

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A better question is, if you're insistent on a particular type, and while you would have an LTR if the girl had the personality to match, you're mainly just looking for quick seduction not in bars and clubs, where are places to look if don't live in LA, Texas, Florida, etc.? Where have you small-town DJs had luck meeting 8-10s?
 

katatonia

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Same here for me. I can't imagine having sex with a girl I don't find very attractive, it's just such a major turn off if she's not hot.
 

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I don't really care for any specifics (ie, certain hair color, certain eye, certain skin tone) but I am picky in that she needs to be in shape (mainly because I work hard to stay in the shape I'm in and I expect it from other ppl). Now that being said I do like 2 certain things (not deal breakers though). I like green eyes (don't know why) and I like small petite girls (like 5'5" 100 lbs size frame).

But beautiful women come in tons of variety.
 

lukester19

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Yes I also like petit girls. I have tried non petit girls and it does not work. I am 6'3 and i thought it would be tougher to get these girls but i was wrong. I do hate it when you got a image in your head and always go after that. It barely show room for improvement with meeting other girls that are not in my image.

Lol i have been abstaining from masturbation and am ready for a girlfriend again. Hopefully I can go out on the prowl again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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