"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone else really picky about looks?

nilescrane

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I have a particular type I like for dating/relationships both looks and personality wise and don't budge one bit. For just sex/friendship/dating though, it's more about pure sexual attraction and the girl not being a b*tch and tolerable to be around. I still find myself, due to a combination of bad location and my own pickiness, only sexually drawn to a small percentage of women.

For one, I'm only attracted to white women. I don't care blonde/brunette/redhead for sex (for dating I like the brunette/artsy/classy type.) But I seem to have a very particular look I go for even for sex. I like the natural beauty look. Of course, every woman wears some makeup and puts effort into her wardrobe, but I don't like the women you see at porn or the typical club wh*re. I like women like Heather Graham, Robin Tunney (from The Mentalist), Rachel Weisz...women that look like even if they weren't wearing any makeup and put on jogging pants and a t-shirt, they'd still look better than the girl with the fake tan and make-up.

The idea of having sex with a "regular girl" (unless I was in love with her and she was hot to me) isn't an option for me.

Anyone else this picky, even about just sex?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nilescrane

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A better question is, if you're insistent on a particular type, and while you would have an LTR if the girl had the personality to match, you're mainly just looking for quick seduction not in bars and clubs, where are places to look if don't live in LA, Texas, Florida, etc.? Where have you small-town DJs had luck meeting 8-10s?
 

katatonia

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Same here for me. I can't imagine having sex with a girl I don't find very attractive, it's just such a major turn off if she's not hot.
 

Scion

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I don't really care for any specifics (ie, certain hair color, certain eye, certain skin tone) but I am picky in that she needs to be in shape (mainly because I work hard to stay in the shape I'm in and I expect it from other ppl). Now that being said I do like 2 certain things (not deal breakers though). I like green eyes (don't know why) and I like small petite girls (like 5'5" 100 lbs size frame).

But beautiful women come in tons of variety.
 

lukester19

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Yes I also like petit girls. I have tried non petit girls and it does not work. I am 6'3 and i thought it would be tougher to get these girls but i was wrong. I do hate it when you got a image in your head and always go after that. It barely show room for improvement with meeting other girls that are not in my image.

Lol i have been abstaining from masturbation and am ready for a girlfriend again. Hopefully I can go out on the prowl again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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