"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone else really picky about looks?

nilescrane

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I have a particular type I like for dating/relationships both looks and personality wise and don't budge one bit. For just sex/friendship/dating though, it's more about pure sexual attraction and the girl not being a b*tch and tolerable to be around. I still find myself, due to a combination of bad location and my own pickiness, only sexually drawn to a small percentage of women.

For one, I'm only attracted to white women. I don't care blonde/brunette/redhead for sex (for dating I like the brunette/artsy/classy type.) But I seem to have a very particular look I go for even for sex. I like the natural beauty look. Of course, every woman wears some makeup and puts effort into her wardrobe, but I don't like the women you see at porn or the typical club wh*re. I like women like Heather Graham, Robin Tunney (from The Mentalist), Rachel Weisz...women that look like even if they weren't wearing any makeup and put on jogging pants and a t-shirt, they'd still look better than the girl with the fake tan and make-up.

The idea of having sex with a "regular girl" (unless I was in love with her and she was hot to me) isn't an option for me.

Anyone else this picky, even about just sex?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nilescrane

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A better question is, if you're insistent on a particular type, and while you would have an LTR if the girl had the personality to match, you're mainly just looking for quick seduction not in bars and clubs, where are places to look if don't live in LA, Texas, Florida, etc.? Where have you small-town DJs had luck meeting 8-10s?
 

katatonia

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Same here for me. I can't imagine having sex with a girl I don't find very attractive, it's just such a major turn off if she's not hot.
 

Scion

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I don't really care for any specifics (ie, certain hair color, certain eye, certain skin tone) but I am picky in that she needs to be in shape (mainly because I work hard to stay in the shape I'm in and I expect it from other ppl). Now that being said I do like 2 certain things (not deal breakers though). I like green eyes (don't know why) and I like small petite girls (like 5'5" 100 lbs size frame).

But beautiful women come in tons of variety.
 

lukester19

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Yes I also like petit girls. I have tried non petit girls and it does not work. I am 6'3 and i thought it would be tougher to get these girls but i was wrong. I do hate it when you got a image in your head and always go after that. It barely show room for improvement with meeting other girls that are not in my image.

Lol i have been abstaining from masturbation and am ready for a girlfriend again. Hopefully I can go out on the prowl again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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