"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Anybody rocking a beard?
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PxDx
Don Juan
I was...just shaved it all off last week...I look 40 with a beard...and 19 fully shaved.
I notice older chix checking me out more when i'm rockin' a full beard.
PxDx
Don Juan
You got it!ChrizZ said:link working now?
Yeah...mine was a full beard sides and all...was the first time i grew it out like that. Was a fun experiment indeed! :rockon:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
go with the first one. that second guys looks scraggly.miba said:I want one like this:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Didn't "get me anywhere" with them though
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