"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Anybody rocking a beard?
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PxDx
Don Juan
I was...just shaved it all off last week...I look 40 with a beard...and 19 fully shaved.
I notice older chix checking me out more when i'm rockin' a full beard.
PxDx
Don Juan
You got it!ChrizZ said:link working now?
Yeah...mine was a full beard sides and all...was the first time i grew it out like that. Was a fun experiment indeed! :rockon:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
go with the first one. that second guys looks scraggly.miba said:I want one like this:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Didn't "get me anywhere" with them though
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