"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anybody rocking a beard?
- Thread starter ChrizZ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PxDx
Don Juan
I was...just shaved it all off last week...I look 40 with a beard...and 19 fully shaved.
I notice older chix checking me out more when i'm rockin' a full beard.
PxDx
Don Juan
You got it!ChrizZ said:link working now?
Yeah...mine was a full beard sides and all...was the first time i grew it out like that. Was a fun experiment indeed! :rockon:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
go with the first one. that second guys looks scraggly.miba said:I want one like this:
http://myplayoffbeard.workspaced.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/nick_playoff_beard1.jpg
or like this:
http://www.chriskula.com/beard/beard2.jpg
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Didn't "get me anywhere" with them though
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