"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anybody rocking a beard?

ChrizZ

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I'm thinking of growing a beard.

like this

I think it would look pretty bada$$ on me because I got a small chin and long face.

What are your experiences with growing a beard?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Link didn't work.

I was...just shaved it all off last week...I look 40 with a beard...and 19 fully shaved.

I notice older chix checking me out more when i'm rockin' a full beard.
 

PxDx

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ChrizZ said:
link working now?
You got it!

Yeah...mine was a full beard sides and all...was the first time i grew it out like that. Was a fun experiment indeed! :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marinetti

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i was in a play set in the 1920s and grew a freaking moustache man. just a moustache, like in old pictures of your grandparents.

that was an experience.
 

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I used to rock a beard. Was fine when I trimmed it and kept things clean. It turned out to be more work than shaving daily.

When I didn't keep it up, it got really shaggy. No women liked it then.
 

SickAgain

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I had a beard back in college (9 months ago), although it gained me a lot of respect, it had adverse effects for the ladies. E-mail me if you want a pic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tsmith2334

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I've had a beard and it's gotten me compliments (from ladies i'm pursuing ironically)

Didn't "get me anywhere" with them though
 

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man, you guys are lucky you're able to grow a beard... ive been wanting one for years, but i just can't grow facial hair. i mean i have some, but not enough for my liking. any advice on what i can do to grow a beard? products or anything, i want one badd! haha i know its stupid
 
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