"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Anybody every get tired of it all?
- Thread starter slaog
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
guywhoneedshelp
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Even the whole dating scene in general, it can be stressful. Try not to think about it for a week, and you'll be refreshed and ready to spit some game more than ever before.
Lanceroni3
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Your own life comes first, dating and women should be secondary.
Sometimes after getting too involved with dating and stuff, i become obsessed with it and start losing my touch. Just take some time off, you'll be fine.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Some men have reached that harmonious moment when all things align for them and the women just come naturally. While it never stays like this all the time for ANYONE, it's good to work towards that great balance of enjoying yourself, because the great bonuses like broads will come with the territory.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
???slaog said:
You never get tired socializing, once this stuff is ingrained in you, your just a social butterfly, everywhere you go your naturally meeting people, some of them you just happen to escalate with.
Actively Sarging = My training grounds where I get experience and internalize new concepts and learn more things
Living My Life = Where all my training comes into affect because I don't try to do anything when I'm not actually out there actively sarging, as a result my interactions go 1000x better.
Basically I'm saying there is no way for me to stop because meeting people is apart of my lifestyle. My whole social circle has seen me interact with others so it's natural if they see me talking to a random stranger.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.