You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Awesome post that should be followed. It was great enough that I felt it necessary to make a post just to agree with it.WC2 said:Thats why I say that dating/meeting women should never feel like a chore. It should just be something natural you do because you want to. Most guys go out to bars with the mindset that they need to get laid that night. No! Go out with the intent of having fun! If you spend your whole life sweating women then there will be no time for other ventures that will attract women in the first place.
Some men have reached that harmonious moment when all things align for them and the women just come naturally. While it never stays like this all the time for ANYONE, it's good to work towards that great balance of enjoying yourself, because the great bonuses like broads will come with the territory.
Get a career, get a girlfriend, make tonnes of money... then laugh at everyone.slaog said:All the women and dating.
Do you ever take a break and come back feeling refreshed and have better game? I think everybody needs time to recharge the batteries before they go to battle again!
???slaog said:All the women and dating.
Do you ever take a break and come back feeling refreshed and have better game? I think everybody needs time to recharge the batteries before they go to battle again!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.