"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anybody every get tired of it all?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Triple T

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ehhh...sometimes.

But the battle itself charges me up. :up:
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Honestly, too much of a good thing (even sex) can be a bad thing. I have a high sex drive, raised very away from sex caused me to grow up to a sex freak. Webcam model, porn creator, etc. But sometimes, too much, with the same person, and yea I need some break.

Even the whole dating scene in general, it can be stressful. Try not to think about it for a week, and you'll be refreshed and ready to spit some game more than ever before.
 

Downman1

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yo your life is not all one thing. There's other stuff like what your passions are
 

Lanceroni3

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You have to take this time to improve yourself man. In fact, you should always be on the look out to improve, even in the smallest ways.

Your own life comes first, dating and women should be secondary.

Sometimes after getting too involved with dating and stuff, i become obsessed with it and start losing my touch. Just take some time off, you'll be fine.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thats why I say that dating/meeting women should never feel like a chore. It should just be something natural you do because you want to. Most guys go out to bars with the mindset that they need to get laid that night. No! Go out with the intent of having fun! If you spend your whole life sweating women then there will be no time for other ventures that will attract women in the first place.

Some men have reached that harmonious moment when all things align for them and the women just come naturally. While it never stays like this all the time for ANYONE, it's good to work towards that great balance of enjoying yourself, because the great bonuses like broads will come with the territory.
 

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WC2 said:
Thats why I say that dating/meeting women should never feel like a chore. It should just be something natural you do because you want to. Most guys go out to bars with the mindset that they need to get laid that night. No! Go out with the intent of having fun! If you spend your whole life sweating women then there will be no time for other ventures that will attract women in the first place.

Some men have reached that harmonious moment when all things align for them and the women just come naturally. While it never stays like this all the time for ANYONE, it's good to work towards that great balance of enjoying yourself, because the great bonuses like broads will come with the territory.
Awesome post that should be followed. It was great enough that I felt it necessary to make a post just to agree with it.
 

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slaog said:
All the women and dating.

Do you ever take a break and come back feeling refreshed and have better game? I think everybody needs time to recharge the batteries before they go to battle again!
Get a career, get a girlfriend, make tonnes of money... then laugh at everyone.
 

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slaog said:
All the women and dating.

Do you ever take a break and come back feeling refreshed and have better game? I think everybody needs time to recharge the batteries before they go to battle again!
???

You never get tired socializing, once this stuff is ingrained in you, your just a social butterfly, everywhere you go your naturally meeting people, some of them you just happen to escalate with.

Actively Sarging = My training grounds where I get experience and internalize new concepts and learn more things

Living My Life = Where all my training comes into affect because I don't try to do anything when I'm not actually out there actively sarging, as a result my interactions go 1000x better.

Basically I'm saying there is no way for me to stop because meeting people is apart of my lifestyle. My whole social circle has seen me interact with others so it's natural if they see me talking to a random stranger.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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