"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Anybody every get tired of it all?
- Thread starter slaog
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
guywhoneedshelp
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Even the whole dating scene in general, it can be stressful. Try not to think about it for a week, and you'll be refreshed and ready to spit some game more than ever before.
Lanceroni3
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Your own life comes first, dating and women should be secondary.
Sometimes after getting too involved with dating and stuff, i become obsessed with it and start losing my touch. Just take some time off, you'll be fine.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Some men have reached that harmonious moment when all things align for them and the women just come naturally. While it never stays like this all the time for ANYONE, it's good to work towards that great balance of enjoying yourself, because the great bonuses like broads will come with the territory.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
???slaog said:
You never get tired socializing, once this stuff is ingrained in you, your just a social butterfly, everywhere you go your naturally meeting people, some of them you just happen to escalate with.
Actively Sarging = My training grounds where I get experience and internalize new concepts and learn more things
Living My Life = Where all my training comes into affect because I don't try to do anything when I'm not actually out there actively sarging, as a result my interactions go 1000x better.
Basically I'm saying there is no way for me to stop because meeting people is apart of my lifestyle. My whole social circle has seen me interact with others so it's natural if they see me talking to a random stranger.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.