DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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JUst be glad she aint pregnant...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any words to make me feel better?
- Thread starter SmoothTalker
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XvBFBGb4p5M
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I got a few words to make you feel better man the f uck up. You gotta be the biggest p ussy I ever met my whole life. I can't be wrong either if she left you. Someone leaves you they should be the last thing on your mind or at all. It seems like you have no life if your mind is revolves around her. If I were you I would focus on other things in my life right now.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol sorry bro but you sound like unexperienced arrogant . I might be wrong .Birdem said:
A man who have experienced relationship would say different things because im sure that he have had been in this guys shoes before . She's alredy part of your life .
Its not that easy to forgot completely about a girlfriend that you have been with for more than e year .
Peace
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
canadianmetalhead
Don Juan
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ya birdem...probably the worst advice ever frmo someone who has never been in a serious relationship. everyone else seems able to sympathize.
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
I don't care about girls that aren't with me anymore who are they to control my feelings. Let me be more nice, I think you should relax on your couch listen to some Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight. After your done bumping Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight you should then write her a letter how much it was your fault not hers. How stupid can a person be to ask for sympathy on a forum of people he never met. It may be painful for you, but come on.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
You should be glad that its over. She obviously has no class if she broke up with you over face book. Thats pretty weak.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol i hope your kidding .Juan_Man said:
Dead serious. I've been on dates but nothing ever materialized into a serious relationship. Plus, I took lengthy breaks to try to "find myself" when I should have just kept searching. It's okay to take a break from women but you don't want to go overboard. If the OP doesn't get over his ex, then he just might find himself in the same boat.Daddy The Pimp said:
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Thanks guys, doing better.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
PrinceBeavis
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That wasn't some homie, that was the poster in the school office, when I'd get sent to the Principal for causing trouble.sexy_kuta said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.