DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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JUst be glad she aint pregnant...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Any words to make me feel better?
- Thread starter SmoothTalker
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XvBFBGb4p5M
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I got a few words to make you feel better man the f uck up. You gotta be the biggest p ussy I ever met my whole life. I can't be wrong either if she left you. Someone leaves you they should be the last thing on your mind or at all. It seems like you have no life if your mind is revolves around her. If I were you I would focus on other things in my life right now.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol sorry bro but you sound like unexperienced arrogant . I might be wrong .Birdem said:
A man who have experienced relationship would say different things because im sure that he have had been in this guys shoes before . She's alredy part of your life .
Its not that easy to forgot completely about a girlfriend that you have been with for more than e year .
Peace
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
canadianmetalhead
Don Juan
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ya birdem...probably the worst advice ever frmo someone who has never been in a serious relationship. everyone else seems able to sympathize.
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
I don't care about girls that aren't with me anymore who are they to control my feelings. Let me be more nice, I think you should relax on your couch listen to some Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight. After your done bumping Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight you should then write her a letter how much it was your fault not hers. How stupid can a person be to ask for sympathy on a forum of people he never met. It may be painful for you, but come on.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
You should be glad that its over. She obviously has no class if she broke up with you over face book. Thats pretty weak.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol i hope your kidding .Juan_Man said:
Dead serious. I've been on dates but nothing ever materialized into a serious relationship. Plus, I took lengthy breaks to try to "find myself" when I should have just kept searching. It's okay to take a break from women but you don't want to go overboard. If the OP doesn't get over his ex, then he just might find himself in the same boat.Daddy The Pimp said:
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Thanks guys, doing better.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
PrinceBeavis
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That wasn't some homie, that was the poster in the school office, when I'd get sent to the Principal for causing trouble.sexy_kuta said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.