DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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JUst be glad she aint pregnant...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Any words to make me feel better?
- Thread starter SmoothTalker
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XvBFBGb4p5M
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I dont know , never tried this tapping thing but i heard great things about it .
Give it a try
Peace
I got a few words to make you feel better man the f uck up. You gotta be the biggest p ussy I ever met my whole life. I can't be wrong either if she left you. Someone leaves you they should be the last thing on your mind or at all. It seems like you have no life if your mind is revolves around her. If I were you I would focus on other things in my life right now.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol sorry bro but you sound like unexperienced arrogant . I might be wrong .Birdem said:
A man who have experienced relationship would say different things because im sure that he have had been in this guys shoes before . She's alredy part of your life .
Its not that easy to forgot completely about a girlfriend that you have been with for more than e year .
Peace
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
canadianmetalhead
Don Juan
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ya birdem...probably the worst advice ever frmo someone who has never been in a serious relationship. everyone else seems able to sympathize.
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
but uh...basically man it isnt the end of the world, a few months you will look back on this like it was nothing, just hang out with your friends as much as you possibly can and meet new people to forget about the older ones. it will be hard to adjust but once you do it will be easy man you'll see.
and like...who dumps someone over facebook anyways? she sounds like a loser
I don't care about girls that aren't with me anymore who are they to control my feelings. Let me be more nice, I think you should relax on your couch listen to some Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight. After your done bumping Lionel Richie and Brain Mcknight you should then write her a letter how much it was your fault not hers. How stupid can a person be to ask for sympathy on a forum of people he never met. It may be painful for you, but come on.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
You should be glad that its over. She obviously has no class if she broke up with you over face book. Thats pretty weak.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lol i hope your kidding .Juan_Man said:
Dead serious. I've been on dates but nothing ever materialized into a serious relationship. Plus, I took lengthy breaks to try to "find myself" when I should have just kept searching. It's okay to take a break from women but you don't want to go overboard. If the OP doesn't get over his ex, then he just might find himself in the same boat.Daddy The Pimp said:
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Thanks guys, doing better.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
And birdem, come on, you don't think a guy has any excuse for feeling a bit down after breaking up with a girl that was not only his first girlfriend but who he dated for 3 years, most of which were pretty good?
Sure if you're ice cold you won't get hurt, but you're going to miss out on a lot too.
PrinceBeavis
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That wasn't some homie, that was the poster in the school office, when I'd get sent to the Principal for causing trouble.sexy_kuta said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.