"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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antidonjuan

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I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vivalarebellion

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antidonjuan said:
I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
I'm not saying fight back, but don't simply let them walk over you. I used to have a acne, and used to get called out for it. So I just started doing what I mentioned, and they backed off.

Don't insult them, just insinuate something. Why? Because people who call out a physical feature, or make fun of someone, they have little to no self-confidence. The smallest remark can cause them to doubt themselves and back down.
 

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Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
 

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antidonjuan said:
Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
? I'd say react the same.
 

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But then Alpha Males don't say dirty words in front of Females (from a post by an experienced DJ) How do you stand up for yourself without accusing other people in front of girls?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blah blah blah

but alpha males do this... and alpha males do that.. bull****.. your not a ****ing wolf in a pack

if some friends annoy u just tell them back its just a game.. now if they over do it (and sometimes they will.. if you dont fight back you will now be the target of everyone).. tell them to **** off, in a serious way cuz it aint funny anymore... i have no trouble in kicking one of my friends ass if he thinks he can make fun of me and make me look like dork lol..

Now if random people starts insulting you.. well it aint a friends thing anymore..thats what sometimes me and my friends do to people with "no value" (lol sosuave vocabulary) aka dorks etc... and until you kick one of those random guys ass it wont stop.. if you cant fight it doesnt matter, id rather get beat down than to shovel my tail between my legs
 
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