"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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antidonjuan said:
I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
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I'm not saying fight back, but don't simply let them walk over you. I used to have a acne, and used to get called out for it. So I just started doing what I mentioned, and they backed off.

Don't insult them, just insinuate something. Why? Because people who call out a physical feature, or make fun of someone, they have little to no self-confidence. The smallest remark can cause them to doubt themselves and back down.
 
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Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
 
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Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
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? I'd say react the same.
 
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But then Alpha Males don't say dirty words in front of Females (from a post by an experienced DJ) How do you stand up for yourself without accusing other people in front of girls?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blah blah blah

but alpha males do this... and alpha males do that.. bull****.. your not a ****ing wolf in a pack

if some friends annoy u just tell them back its just a game.. now if they over do it (and sometimes they will.. if you dont fight back you will now be the target of everyone).. tell them to **** off, in a serious way cuz it aint funny anymore... i have no trouble in kicking one of my friends ass if he thinks he can make fun of me and make me look like dork lol..

Now if random people starts insulting you.. well it aint a friends thing anymore..thats what sometimes me and my friends do to people with "no value" (lol sosuave vocabulary) aka dorks etc... and until you kick one of those random guys ass it wont stop.. if you cant fight it doesnt matter, id rather get beat down than to shovel my tail between my legs
 
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