"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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antidonjuan said:
I disagree with vivalarebellion, if you fight back, you lose gound and you will eventually get into a stupid battle. Instead of arguing, just simply ignore them and that will make them look stupid. If you fight back, you will eventually become just like them.
I'm not saying fight back, but don't simply let them walk over you. I used to have a acne, and used to get called out for it. So I just started doing what I mentioned, and they backed off.

Don't insult them, just insinuate something. Why? Because people who call out a physical feature, or make fun of someone, they have little to no self-confidence. The smallest remark can cause them to doubt themselves and back down.
 

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Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
 

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antidonjuan said:
Yea you are right, it sometimes works out like you are the man and tries to stand up for yourself!
So vivalerbellion, when anyone make those jokes to me in front of GIRLS, how should I react?
? I'd say react the same.
 

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But then Alpha Males don't say dirty words in front of Females (from a post by an experienced DJ) How do you stand up for yourself without accusing other people in front of girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blah blah blah

but alpha males do this... and alpha males do that.. bull****.. your not a ****ing wolf in a pack

if some friends annoy u just tell them back its just a game.. now if they over do it (and sometimes they will.. if you dont fight back you will now be the target of everyone).. tell them to **** off, in a serious way cuz it aint funny anymore... i have no trouble in kicking one of my friends ass if he thinks he can make fun of me and make me look like dork lol..

Now if random people starts insulting you.. well it aint a friends thing anymore..thats what sometimes me and my friends do to people with "no value" (lol sosuave vocabulary) aka dorks etc... and until you kick one of those random guys ass it wont stop.. if you cant fight it doesnt matter, id rather get beat down than to shovel my tail between my legs
 
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