"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any tips for this situation?

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Alright, heres the setup:

I went out with this girl about 4 months ago maybe 6 or 7 times over a couple months. In my opinion at the time it was just dating, but she wanted something more serious and I didnt really. I didnt handle it as I should have...... I didnt really handle it at all. I just stopped calling her or returning her calls. After about a week of calling she stopped.

Heres the situation now:

My priorities are a little different. I just got elected to the Students Union at my University and a solid GF would fit with my life a little bit better than casual dating as I wanted before. This girl would make a fantastic GF, but I really didnt keep a friendship with her. Just kinda blew her off. Is there a way to call her and reestablish something? If so, what is the best approach to take in order to get back on the good side?

Thanks for the input!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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well how did you blow her off?

and i dunno maby......call her????????? so long as you did not totally be an ass 2 her.
 
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I just stopped talking to her one day. I think I went out of town for the weekend and I just never called her or answered her calls when I returned. I didnt say anything mean to her, I just kind of "disappeared"..... I really dont even know why I did, I just wasnt really in a GF state of mind and thought it would be easier than dealing with it.
 
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ok, then call her. simple as that. I'v done that 2 a couple chicks. one i havent had contact with for a couple months minus 1 e-mail that said i was super busy. If i feel like it might giver her a call and maby go have some fun if i dont get another girl to fill the space when i feel like it.
 
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What would you suggest saying if I call her? Should I give some sort of explanation, of just act completely normal and see if she brings it up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No explinations, it'd be more natural, just to "bump" into her and start things up again. But don't be suprised if things don't go swimmingly.

-Grey Fox
 
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