Any tips for this situation?

[rsxy]

Alright, heres the setup:

I went out with this girl about 4 months ago maybe 6 or 7 times over a couple months. In my opinion at the time it was just dating, but she wanted something more serious and I didnt really. I didnt handle it as I should have...... I didnt really handle it at all. I just stopped calling her or returning her calls. After about a week of calling she stopped.

Heres the situation now:

My priorities are a little different. I just got elected to the Students Union at my University and a solid GF would fit with my life a little bit better than casual dating as I wanted before. This girl would make a fantastic GF, but I really didnt keep a friendship with her. Just kinda blew her off. Is there a way to call her and reestablish something? If so, what is the best approach to take in order to get back on the good side?

Thanks for the input!

 

[Fenderules]

well how did you blow her off?

and i dunno maby......call her????????? so long as you did not totally be an ass 2 her.

 

[rsxy]

I just stopped talking to her one day. I think I went out of town for the weekend and I just never called her or answered her calls when I returned. I didnt say anything mean to her, I just kind of "disappeared"..... I really dont even know why I did, I just wasnt really in a GF state of mind and thought it would be easier than dealing with it.

 

[Fenderules]

ok, then call her. simple as that. I'v done that 2 a couple chicks. one i havent had contact with for a couple months minus 1 e-mail that said i was super busy. If i feel like it might giver her a call and maby go have some fun if i dont get another girl to fill the space when i feel like it.

 

[rsxy]

What would you suggest saying if I call her? Should I give some sort of explanation, of just act completely normal and see if she brings it up?

 

[Grey Fox]

No explinations, it'd be more natural, just to "bump" into her and start things up again. But don't be suprised if things don't go swimmingly.

-Grey Fox